Thursday, February 19, 2009

Hi again,just a few updates..i thank God for helping me finish my essay assignment ahead of time..had been staying up very late to work on it for the last 3 weeks or so..caught up with quite a few friends this month,my former sec school classmates(after 8 yrs or so for most of them),my former sp classmates.my ns squadron mates and my sp dg mates.other things that happened-miscommunication with certain project mates(work-in-progress),minor dispute with my aunt(resolved already)...now working on a fixed qt..persevere joel..you can make it.Thank God though,that the healing from the r/s is on-going,though certain issues still crop out from time to time,but this is what i concluded so far-
1.i shouldnt mix around people who like to threaten others
2.such people resort to such means because they are insecure in Christ
3.it is right to voice out your views to make ur position clear to others
4.the guy should always take charge in a r/s and make the final decisions
5.he should always set the visions and the standard for the r/s and not compromise on them
6.he should honor God in every step of the r/s
7.both parties should love each other for who they are and accept each other's shortcomings-not what the other person can be-in line with our expectations
8. both parties should seek to understand and communicate with each other and refrain from using third parties or threats
9.both parties must abstain from physical touch as far as possible
10.Both parties must pray together and for each other
11.Both parties must have r/s mentors
12.integrity is essential in a r/s,dont compromise on your principles even if you are pressured to or persuaded to..the future cost far outweighs the present benefit
...and so on...i believe that God will continue to teach me more as i seek Him
joel

9:55 AM